You carry the weight of your past
Imagine you’ve been carrying the weight of old wounds for years, some from childhood and others from more recent experiences. To cope with these challenging memories and emotions, you might have developed internal defenses—parts of yourself that stepped in to protect you.
These parts work hard to prevent you from feeling the same pain, disappointment, or rejection that hurt you before. Over time, they’ve become skilled at managing overwhelming emotions and steering you away from situations that feel risky or vulnerable.
You have some protective parts
Perhaps some parts have learned to keep you safe by people-pleasing, avoiding conflict, or by encouraging perfectionism to gain acceptance.
Others may use coping strategies like withdrawing, shutting down, or even engaging in self-sabotaging behaviors, such as overworking or numbing with substances, to shield you from discomfort.
These protective parts formed as adaptive responses, ensuring you could navigate through life’s challenges. Even though they once served a crucial role, they might now keep you from feeling fully connected to yourself and others.
Get ready for major shifts
Through IFS therapy, you can start understanding, appreciating, and healing these protective parts, allowing you to reconnect with your core Self. Integrated with approaches like EMDR, this therapy creates a path for profound healing and a harmonious relationship with all parts of you, leading to more resilience and emotional well-being.
Read my blog post about IFS, Attachment, and EMDR therapies.
Learn more about parts work
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