There are many tools that can be helpful for managing anxious attachment, including:

Mindfulness techniques: Practicing mindfulness, such as focusing on the present moment and accepting your thoughts and feelings without judgment, can help you become more aware of your anxious attachment patterns and learn to respond to them in a more healthy way.

Therapy: Therapy can help you identify and change negative thought patterns and behaviors that contribute to anxious attachment and help you focuses on improving communication and relationships with others. It can be particularly helpful for managing anxious attachment by helping you to understand and address the underlying issues that contribute to your attachment anxiety. Having a supportive therapist or counselor who can provide a safe and non-judgmental spaceto explore your thoughts and feelings can be incredibly helpful in managing anxious attachment.

Self-care practices: Taking good care of yourself, including getting enough rest, exercise, and nourishing your body and mind, can help you feel more grounded and better able to cope with anxious attachment patterns.

It’s important to remember that managing anxious attachment is a process, and it may take time and effort to make lasting changes. It can be helpful to work with a mental health professional who can support you in finding the tools and strategies that work best for you.